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My boyfriend just recently broke up with me. We have known each other since the dawn of time, and our parents are super-duper close. (Which pretty much sucks.) We go to church together, so it’s not like I can just forget about him. (Our church could fit in a McDonald’s play area.) Word has gotten around, and it’s very akward. Today, I had nursery with his mom, (I don’t think she knows yet…) and he just completely ignored me. My mom and his mom were just chatting away about him, just random things, and I almost started to cry. He broke up with me because, "It wasn’t working out." I don’t know what to do with myself anymore. It hurts way to much to see him….Should I keep trying to win him back, or should I just be friends with him (if he wishes)? Can anyone give me advice?

Sorry honey – I know it hurts so bad, but it will get better every day. I would stay away from him. Avoid him in church – sit somewhere where you won’t see him (in front of him so he’s looking at you ignoring him). Forget about trying to win him back and what do you mean be friends "if he wishes"! Come on – you’re better than that. It should be if YOU wish – He hurt you. You don’t want to give him a chance to keep hurting you. Avoid him like the plague, and when he sees what he’s missing things may change. If you keep trying to get him back why does he have to do anything different. If he can ignore you – you can certainly ignore him. Give him a dose of his own medicine! In the mean time only listen to happy music, songs, watch funny movies, read funny stories. Pretty soon you won’t be thinking about him every minute, but you have to keep busy. Keep your chin up, you can do it!!!